In movies, prom is supposed to be the best night of your life. It is an American rite of passage. Admit it, ever since you were little, prom seemed like a dream night; however, that was until you actually could go. 📷
When did prom become just another item on your to-do list?
The truth is, the months leading up to prom seem to be the opposite of “perfect.” Who am I gonna go with? Where am I gonna find a dress? What about shoes, and don’t forget about getting my nails done!
It feels as if prom is a never ending stressor; by the time it actually gets here, it is overrated. In the midst of frantically searching for a date and group, the initial thoughts and joy of prom are washed away.
When planning for the big dance, money becomes an issue. So often families are spending and spending on one night, and probably planning on never wearing any part of the outfit a second time.
According to USA Today, between hair, makeup, outfits, and rides, teens are spending an average of $600 on prom. Most people are focused on how much the limo will cost or worrying if someone will wear the same dress as they will. Besides putting a dent in wallets, prom has so many elements people fixate on, other then the dance itself.
This doesn’t have to always be the case. There are many ways to save spending on prom night, for example the CCA prom dress showcase. There was a huge selection of second-hand prom dresses at CCA for little or no money. This is a great example of ways to save some cash this prom season.
What happens if we take away the pressure of a huge promposal, like the intricate scavenger hunts and tons of balloons? The pressure of coming up with a grand and clever idea to ask someone increases each year. The simple asking is genuine and is often hidden behind the pressure to spell out “PROM” with candles.
Prom would maybe be just a little more enjoyable if it was not made into such a big deal. Prom should be a night to enjoy, and the months leading up to it should be anticipated with excitement, not worry.
Don’t be anxious about the evening. Instead, go with a group of friends, relax, take the pressure off of making the night “perfect.” The night will probably end up being closer to your expectations if you don’t have any at all.
